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Braxton Bennett's avatar

I haven't spent much time in elite circles, but some friends of friends were raised in wealthy private Catholic schools and elite colleges with family trips all around the world, etc.

I've noticed they dress really weird (like ankle-length pioneer woman skirts and black combat boots) and strange haircuts, they shave off their eyebrows. It's like they know they're privileged and the world is their oyster, so they actively do things to make themselves less attractive. And I'm only 30 and they're like 25 so I'm not a boomer that just doesn't understand today's fashion. I even heard one of them claim to be bisexual, but that they'd never have sex with someone of the same sex. What?! I know they spend lots of time in therapy as well. And I wonder if it has to do with guilt of believing certain things about privilege, yet not being willing to give up their positions of privilege. They're confessing in order to relieve themselves of their guilt (should've just stayed Catholic). But in the same breath that they denounce privilege, they'll brag about their high-paying jobs at Fortune 500 companies. Money is one hell of a drug!

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Meeok Ex-Account's avatar

Another factor to throw into the mix is that 100 years ago the elite universities themselves lacked diversity, both in student body, faculty, and content - with zero awareness that maybe that was a problem. Not only are there scholarships now so that poor kids gain access to what they teach there, but you're getting the mixing of class, race, gender, etc there that is uncomfortably more recent than we care to acknowledge. You see which groups have what and their attitudes and extensive knowledge of history and you're in a place with tons of international students. Experience really defies what the news tells you to think and so it makes sense that these kids want to change the narrative based on the very different exposure they're getting on these campuses.

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