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Robert D's avatar

In 1989, Hurricane Hugo blew through my home city with 90 mph winds. We are a city of trees and about 15% blew down, many of them damaging homes and injuring people. Power and telephone lines were down for 2 weeks in my neighborhood. No lights, no heat, etc. for 14 days. You never saw such neighborly love. People were helping each other every way they could. Late on day 1 we heard a chain saw in our front yard and a neighbor we'd never met was clearing our driveway. After about a week or so, the houses across the street got power back. Those neighbors let the folks on our side run extension cords all the way across the street so we could make coffee, use lights at night and watch a little TV. They invited us over to take hot showers. Honestly, I think people came alive during this little disaster and found meaning in helping each other. People who were here then talk about it to this day. Many of us long for a society where that level of connection and helping each other is the norm, instead of the exception.

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Rod Miller's avatar

My parents both had vivid memories of the Great Depression, & they revelled in those memories. What I misunderstood but came to realize is that it wasn't the deprivation they missed but rather the togetherness of people facing a challenge as a cooperative group.

Similarly I could never understand the nostalgia of the men I knew who'd been in WWII. True, some had endured horribly traumatizing things that left them without nostalgia. But a lot of them had mixed feelings — it had been the biggest event of their lives & they had a sense of group purpose that they never found again after the war.

Our civilization atomizes us & forces us to compete for something that soon turns to ashes in your mouth should you win the race. As Paul Kingsnorth (former atheist & now enthusiastic Orthodox Christian) puts it, modernity somehow got human nature entirely wrong.

“In the Orthodox Church we began advent — a word which, in the original Latin, adventus, means ‘the coming’ — on the 15th of November. We have been fasting since that date, and will do until Christmas Day.

It’s not until you throw yourself into the Liturgical Year with gusto, and really practice the traditional Christian cycle of fasting followed by feasting, that you understand the function of a ritual year; how it deepens you and opens up the pattern of the world before you. Then you notice how we in the modern world have abolished the fasting and doubled down on the feasting, in all areas of life. This was because we wanted to be happy. We got rid of the bit that felt like effort and self-denial and extended the bit that felt like fun and self-indulgence. Now we are encouraged to feast all year and not fast at all - unless, of course, we are concerned about our ‘body image’. This gives us lots of stuff, all the time. There are no limits! Hurray! And yet, mysteriously, we do not seem to be happier.

It’s almost as if modernity has got human nature entirely wrong.”

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